ONE CHILD DISOBEY HIS FATHER

When the Prophet Muhammad summoned the Muslims who are able to jump into the arena to fight the battle of Badr, interesting dialogue occurs between Saad bin Khaitsamah by his father namely Khaitsamah. In those times such calls is not too surprising. The Muslims are no strangers when called upon to defend the religion of Allah and jihad Fisabilillah. Therefore Khaitsamah said to his son, "O my son, I'm going out to fight and you stay home to keep women and children."

"O my father, by Allah, do not do things like that, because of my desire to fight them is greater than your desire. You have been concerned to stay at home, then let me get out and stay thou here, O my father."
Khaitsamah angry and said to his son, "You disobey and not obey my orders."
Saad replied, "God requires me to call for jihad and Prophet went to war. While you are asking something else to me, so how are you willing to see me yield to you, but I oppose Allah and the Prophet."

So Khaitsamah said, "O my son, if any of us have nothing left for one person neither you nor I, then the precedence me to leave."
Saad said, "By Allah, O my father, if heaven is not a problem, then I will precede you."
Khaitsamah not willing to except through a lottery between him and his son so that was more equitable. Lottery Results showed that Saad was the one who must go down to the battlefield. He also took to the battlefield of Badr and died a martyr.

After that Khaitsamah left for the battlefield. But the Prophet did not allow it. It's just that the Prophet finally allowed after Khaitsamah said tearfully, "O Messenger of Allah, I will jump in the battle of Badr. Because much I have to draw straws with my son. But that's won so that he who gets to die a martyr. Yesterday I had a dream in which my son was said to me, "You must accompany us in heaven, and I have received God's promise. Messenger of Allah, by Allah, I desire to be with him in heaven. I was already up and I want to meet my Lord. "

Having allowed the Prophet, Khaitsamah fight till martyrdom, and met with his son in heaven.